Katie writes: “I recently ended an eight year relationship. We were both in our fifties. I "did the work" on myself while investing in our relationship. But when it came to addressing any issues, they were not open for discussion. In the last year he became mentally abusive. One month after our break up, he confessed he had had affairs, plural, throughout our relationship. How do I move forward and trust someone new? It's hard to even trust myself now.”